Geez, two days of pretty much nothing but running to court houses, yes multiple, getting forms and getting them filled out. And we are supposed to plant tomorrow. Today I don't know what is going on it is time to get tobacco ready to go to stagecoach. We have quite a few plants I am happy with even more that are acceptable and a ton of them that are still barely sprouted starts. They are all going to get planted tomorrow and come what may. I am convinced the problem has been fertilizer poisoning.
We started another tray of MCY and will start it in Deluxestogies magical blend of starting medium. Hopefully with the improved starts he demonstrated and MCY being an early maturing variety we can get them planted and grown this season. We will see. We are already late for starting late.
I made a count yesterday and we have lost a total of 413 starts when I had allowed for 190. this means that not only do we have no plants for growing here at home. We do not even have enough plants to fill the field in stagecoach.
We will be picking out 145 plants to keep here at home. a few of every variety that we are growing. And the rest are going into the truck this evening for an early morning start to Stagecoach. We are going to try and plant all of the rest in one day. Keeping them sorted out is starting to be a real pain. We actualy went thorugh and moved living plant into empty cells last night so that we are not hauling a bunch of empty dirt to stagecoach. My daughter refilled 6 packs with Bob's peat mix as we went and they are ready for transplants we had started 4 days ago. So today we not only have to get loaded up but we have to transplant some 400 plus sprouts to cells. I have every epectation that the new starting mix will solve the problems we have been having. I also expect I am going to be very angry when it does. The soil we used was an expensive and aggravating mistake.
As for all the custody stuff going on with my kids. it is a never ending very fast paced story but we are keeping heads above water so far. the TPO my sons ex got was probably rendered useless almost immediately when she contacted him right after it was served. He filed a challenge to it yesterday and the fact she had contacted him almost guarantees it will be terminated. There is also a good chance that along with it there will be a custody order so he will not have to wait for weeks to see his son again. This may have served to speed up the process by weeks.
He filed for several things yesterday including a TPO against his ex for himself and our family. Custody hearing, challenge to the TPO against him. and reported her contact with him. Included in his TPO was a contact he could arrange visitation of his son through. OS far that contact has remained unreachable with her phone now shut off and will not respond to other messages. We are also looking into what we can file against that person for failure to uphold her court ordered obligation. THe attourney we consulted said my son simply needs to mention this to the first judge he sees and she may be found in contempt of court or something like that. It has nwo been 3 days since she was ordered by the court to be the supervisor. Three days to avoid visitation for a 6 week old infant that the father has not seen at all for three weeks was called "Gross negligence" by one of the attorneys. With the trail of behavior my son described the attourneys recommended he presue Primary Custody. This would mean the mother would be paying him child support, and she would be allowed visitation only as the court arranged it. It seems a whole lot easier to me for two adults to just work things out. Neither one of these kids are unreasonable really. The Ex likes to be controlling and manipulating and she made the mistake of using my sons child as a means to do that. it was a straw that broke the camels back and he will not consider for one second leaving her the ability to do it again. She is going to loose big time and I actually feel sorry for her. I am of the firm beliefe that a child needs both a mother and a father i ther life at all times. They each have their part and those parts are not the same. In short we are all working very hard and are getting exhausted by something that makes me very sad to see.
Anyway thanks for a friendly ear all. It helps to just type this stuff out and get my head wrapped around that past 24 hours a bit. Wish Us luck. I doubt I will have time to visit the sight again until tomorrow evening at the earliest. It is 5:30 a.m and when this post is finished I am goign to start transplanting sprouts. I don't expect to finish up today until around 9 tonight. I took the day off work and still don't think I will have enough time to get everything done.